This floral is all about expectations and how much I don’t like them. Others and my own. A REALLY good way to get me to NOT do something is to tell me I should. Ask me — and you’re more likely to get a yes. Anyone else have this tendency? I feel your pain. It can be both freeing and crippling. Thankfully, most of humanity is not this way. Otherwise chaos would ensue. But I like myself the way that I am.